Lori H. Poppinga - "Let us consider how to stir up one another to good works..."
 
We’re Good Kids
 
 
“If you want your children to improve, let them overhear the nice things you say about them to others. –Haim Ginott
 
 
I recently discovered the joy of digital scrapbooking and share my newfound hobby with anyone who will take a look—aka, I pull out our latest vacation photos.
 
One Sunday afternoon, we invited an older couple to our home for lunch. They commented on all of their vacation photos to Scotland in the neat photobook their daughter made for them.
 
I immediately pulled out my latest photobook of our trip across eight states with eight children in eight days.
 
They graciously accepted the book and looked through, commenting here and there. My twelve-year-old daughter, Tirzah, sat with them and explained where the pictures were taken and what we were doing.
 
After several pages, our guest commented how challenging a trip of this magnitude would be with eight children.
 
My daughter piped up, “We’re good kids.”
I just laughed. That’s my line. Whenever people ask how I do it with eight chidren, I always respond, “They’re good kids.”
 
 
My Mom Can Do Anything
 
 
“O Sovereign Lord! You made the heavens and earth by your strong hand and powerful arm. Nothing is too hard for you!” Jeremiah 32:17 NLT
 
Back when I had four children four years old and under, I had to take all four children to the grocery one particular day.  I had the new baby in the snugli, my one year old in the seat of the shopping cart, my two year old in the buggy part of the shopping cart and my four year old hanging on to the cart right by my side.
 
As we walked through the store, a woman saw our little parade and said, “I don’t know how you do it.”
 
My little one blinked long lashed blue eyes and said, “My mom can do anything.”
 
Now my children are older and realize I cannot do everything, but their trust in me when they were little laid a foundation on which they build their trust in God who can do all things.
 
Praise God! Nothing is too hard for Him!
You Just Do It
However You Want!
 
            “Your Kingdom come, Your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven.”
Matthew 6: 10
 
Sitting on my lap one afternoon, my three year old daughter instructed me how to play a computer game.
 
“Put that there.
 
“Move that over there.
 
“Now that one.” She said.
 
I calmly played my game ignoring her suggestions since I a) had no idea what she was talking about and b) knew she had no idea what she was talking about.
 
After several more moves, she said, “Oh, just do it however you want!” I cracked up and told her thank you for giving me permission to do what I was already doing.
 
While the situation was amusing, I wondered how often I played the same game with God. I asked myself if my prayers were much different from my daughters ignorant attempts to tell me how to play a game she knew nothing about.
 
God, move so and so here. God, take away my problem. God, now do this one. Finally, when my way fails, I pray, “God, just do it your way.”
 
God knows what is best. God knows how to “play the game.” Does this mean I shouldn’t play…pray? Of course not. God calls me to pray. God wants to communicate with me. God wants me to pour out my heart to Him. Just as I want free flowing communication with my daughter.  
 
But I need to remember the Creator of the Universe does not need my help, He needs my cooperation. He graciously includes me in His work just as I include my children in my work. Could I clean the house faster by myself than with a three year old undoing my every move? Of course, but in order to build a lifelong relationship with her I include her in my daily life. God does the same. And how grateful I am that He does!
Divine Appointments
 
 
            I have often heard the phrase “divine appointment,” but had not experienced one personally until last spring.
           At that time, I traveled to my first writer’s conference in Colorado.  I had submitted my choices for one-on-one’s with editors after hours of pouring over books and the internet to make my final selections.  I received my top four choices, but due to illness or other issues, I needed to choose to meet with someone else.  I prayed as I approached the one-on-one sign-up table asking the Lord to direct my choice.
            My eyes scanned the list of available editors as my brain tried to place what I would have to share with each one.  Being new to the writing world, my portfolio was pitifully small. 
            Time and again my eyes came back to an editor from a curriculum publishing house so I signed up for a one-on-one with her.  I had nothing to show her and was only familiar with her product through our preschool Sunday School teacher who loves their curriculum and has used it for years.
            While waiting for a critique on a children’s story I had written, I saw this editor sitting on the steps passing the time between her appointments as well.  I introduced myself to the lovely young woman, and explained that I would be meeting with her later that day. 
            I jokingly shared that our preschool teacher used her curriculum exclusively as did our MOPS group.  She quipped because of my compliment she would take anything I had written.  
            The witty repartee set the stage for a relaxed meeting later in the afternoon.  I reiterated the fact that I had nothing to show her, but was familiar with her publishing house and their products.
She took over the remainder of the interview explaining the different types of opportunities available with her house.  She gave me an assignment as a freelance writer and asked me to send my resume in as a freelance editor also.
            In return, I gave her my business card and concluded a very pleasant meeting. 
            After the conference, I attempted to work on the assignment, but the release of my oldest six children from school for the summer filled up my days to such an extent that I got no further than pondering the project and thinking, “I really should work on that project.”
            Summer flew by with nary a moment to think let alone write, and, once again, the children were back to school.
            As I fell back into the routine, I once again thought of my appointment at the writer’s conference and wondered if she still needed the assignment she had given me at the conference or if I had missed my opportunity. 
Once again, I prayed and asked God what I should do about this situation.
            I continued on with daycare and my lessons with the Christian Writer’s Guild. 
            One day, I opened my e-mail to find a message from her.  I opened the e-mail with trembling fingers. 
            Her e-mail invited me to be a contributing author on a book her house was writing.  I could hardly believe my eyes.  She had not seen any of my work, and, yet, she was asking me to contribute to a book put out by her company. 
            I was amazed, astonished, thrilled and humbled at this opportunity.
            I quickly responded and within two weeks had completed my first project. 
            Looking back on my expectations for the writer’s conference, I had hoped to be discovered for my writing abilities by a big publishing house.  I planned, plotted, and strategically placed myself with the people I wanted to meet. 
            Instead, I discovered through a ‘divine appointment’ how intimately God works in my life planning, plotting and strategically placing me with the people He wants me to meet.
 
This article first appeared in the Christian Communicator June 2008
 
 
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